Bill with granddaughter Deanna
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My interest in providing for children a childhood much different and richer
than is traditional in our culture grew out of my own search for meaning in
life. As a young electrical engineer, with a wife and two little children, my
search led me to leave my narrow culture-based and scientifically based
concepts to adopt a view that the True Self, the essence, of each individual
is magnificent and valuable. Wow! I sure started looking at our children with
a sense of awe and trust that I never had before. Furthermore, my idea that
parenting means "raising children" was tossed out as I contemplated the
thought that the children were probably more advanced than I was.
Professionally, I worked in the aerospace industry as a design engineer and
manager, concluding my engineering career as the director of a software
development laboratory. I became accustomed to using engineering principles
and management principles in my work, but where were the principles for
parenting?
From my new views about children and my interest in finding principles to
apply to parenting, I joined with my wife, Win, in developing our own
approach to living with children, an approach that was as independent of
concepts from our culture as we could make it. With time my confidence grew,
but I soon learned that friends and neighbors typically were afraid to depart
from the parenting practices that are normal in our culture. Even though
there was little support from other parents, Win and I kept on with our own
child-honoring paradigm for family living.
Through the following years I have found abundant scientific and empirical
support for various parts of our family living paradigm, but nowhere have I
found it all together in one message. My passion is to get this message to
all families so they, too, can live joyfully.
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